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你鼓励孩子跟人抢玩具吗?

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摘要:   妈网网友提出疑问   据妈网网友“快乐嘟宝妈”反映:今天我带着儿子果果去早教中心上课,课上有一个宝宝之间传阅布猪,相互摸摸布猪的活动。但是有一个小孩子A就是把布猪紧紧拿在手里不肯传给下一个小孩子B, ...
你鼓励孩子跟人抢玩具吗?

  妈网网友提出疑问
  据妈网网友“快乐嘟宝妈”反映:今天我带着儿子果果去早教中心上课,课上有一个宝宝之间传阅布猪,相互摸摸布猪的活动。但是有一个小孩子A就是把布猪紧紧拿在手里不肯传给下一个小孩子B,孩子B的妈妈便不乐意地对他说:你想要玩具就过去抢呀,去抢呀!小孩子B也是想去抢又不敢向前走。当玩具好不容易传到了果果手上,因为果果习惯跟我大儿子抢玩具,所以我就担心果果也会抢着玩具不放,果然他还是占为己有了。之前我看着小孩子B的妈妈的做法时就已经浑身不舒服了,怎么可以鼓励小孩子去抢玩具呢?这跟鼓励小孩子去抢东西有区别吗?我可不能让自己的儿子也变成这样子呢,于是我就自己硬把儿子手上的玩具拿给了下一个孩子。
  请问我这样子做对吗?我们不应该鼓励孩子去抢玩具吧?

你会鼓励孩子去抢玩具吗?
  妈网网友纷纷发表意见
  妈网网友“/睡far”:这样教育孩子有意义吗?以后这样的孩子就有出息了?靠抢别人的过日子那能行吗?外面抢不了以后就抢家里的,这位妈妈不应该呀,小心作茧自缚呀。
  妈网网友“飘飘妈咪”:这样的孩子以后养成这个习惯了,等大了,伙伴们都不喜欢跟这样的孩子玩的,还是要教育好孩子去分享呀。还有就是以防孩子娇生惯养呀,孩子不会吃苦,将来还是害了自己呀!
  妈网网友“rsy77”:东西要分享哦。我在家就经常和我的孩子萌萌说,要和姐姐一起分享,现在好多了,知道把好吃的掰给姐姐一半,虽然有时候给的少了点,但是已经很进步了。
专家意见
鼓励宝宝去抢自己喜欢的东西,而置对方的感受不顾,这实质上培养的是自私、自大、自我为中心,不尊重人,不考虑他人感受,从人格上培养上将孩子放到了负面的、低价值观的危险地步。能与人和谐相处,善于交往、善于合作与沟通这种人格特征在孩子成长的过程中会越来越重要,父母应该做好这方面的教育。
  小编总结:宝宝想玩别人儿子手上的玩具,妈妈应该鼓励宝宝对别的孩子说:我也想玩你的玩具,我们俩一起玩好吗?如果对方不同意,可以让宝宝拿自己的玩具和对方换着玩,还可以鼓励宝宝想出玩玩具的花样吸引对方孩子一起玩。总之,只要有正确的教育理念,方法是无穷的,教育孩子学会分享很重要,切忌只是一味鼓励宝宝去抢东西,这会给小孩子心灵造成影响,认为东西都可以去抢回来的,这可就麻烦了。

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